Good bye!

This semester I have decided to say goodbye to the blog with a few entries about the feelings and moods. The reason for this decision is because this summer I read a book about them and it was interesting to me and it inspired me to write, for what I relied on many of the arguments presented the book. The book is called Los sentimientos y la vida afectiva a través del cine and I recommend it to all those who find it funny this topic to read it because it is very entertaining. I hope you enjoyed it. Farewell!

How we translate the feelings of fear?

The language of afraid is reflected by Pittam and Gallois, those who examine the terms related to fear, as worry, fear and shock.

When afraid is strong, the man wants to get out of it but he is not able to find a solution. Despair is in many cases the result of afraid. When trouble is near, we fall into an bottomless pit that holds few opportunities to get out. This would justify that fears are translated into blockage, anxiety, tremor .... The solution is to address this concern, leading to reduce it, we must control our minds, hold our thoughts and focus on the cause that produces it to stand up.

We know that love and fear are two basic mental states. However, fear is very basic but it does not stop being a mess of love. Fear becomes a source of negative emotions, and it is hidden behind the vices. It is necessary for our growth as people to admit that we are afraid for some reason and identify the cause that produces it.

How to arise the feelings of fear?

According to Burgos fear occurs when there is something or someone that can hurt me in any way that I do not control and this situation gives me a feeling of afraid. Appears before the unknown and prepares to flee or escape.

Most common fears: to criticism and to failure, to the future to the abandonment, to sickness, to the unknown, to lose what we have (money, work and family among others).

The fear comes to provoke thoughts that are only in our imagination they make us lose confidence and security in our behavior, they alter our reactions and it can paralyze us. Facing our afraid it is the only way that it goes away.

What is fear? How to identify the feelings of fear.

The fear is related to the trends of the individual before an object or situation we perceive as threatening attacking us directly or indirectly, preventing us from being owners of our actions. According to Aquinas the fear is a passion born of love and is opposed to hope.

Yepes and Aranguren (2001) consider that our inclinations or impulses to set aside or overcome obstacles can be positive or negative. When they face with an unavoidable evil is called fear (shutdown) when it is avoidable could talk about boldness (courage).

The afraid is exaggerated fear; the recklessnessis the opposite, it is not afraid. The lack of fear leads to recklessness which may lead us to the precipice.

Did we connect our feelings with our will and intellect?

Our psyche is manifested in three aspects: emotional life, intellectual life and volitional life.

Today's culture puts the spotlight on feelings, disconnecting them of intellect and will. It is also true that we live continually with our feelings and emotions, so it would be wrong to leave them outside, but turning them into the guidance of our conduct would also be a mistake.

We need to integrate our feelings in our persons along with the reason and will. In this consists the maturity on integrating and matching intelligence,, will and feelings in our actions and our relationships.

Mysteries of the affective world: feelings, emotions, passions and moods.

Our emotional world contains all kinds of trends that occur in our inner affections, feelings, emotions and passions. We experience emotions as something deep, personal and intimate. Feelings and emotions can be used as synonyms because they are related. In the emotion, we find specific and transient reactions, whereas in the primitive feeling we have a more stable attitude.

The passions arise in the mood as a primitive feeling. These bloom in our privacy producing continuously desires and actions that organizes our head. Of the intensity with which we live our feelings, our character is determined as soon as they become the way in which my "self" is facing the circumstances of life.

It is true that feelings, govern our personal lives, in spite of the reason. Those feelings and situations we live every day have to go hand in hand. When things affect us so as scarce as disproportionate we must deepen the strong wind, in order to remedy the fear.

According to Kövecses and Fussell the feelings must be expressed in such a way that is perfectly understandable. It is of utmost importance so that smooth interpersonal relationships are given verbal communication, facial expressions postures gestures, tones of voice among others.

Feelings are an open door to an appreciation of what surrounds us creating and dispensing our conduct and behavior. It is important to to put it at the service of the intelligence to avoid giving an excessive assessment, falling into sentimentality it stops responding to our will. It should be occasionally ironic and laugh about our feelings, not to run into loves and fears unfounded.

 

 

 

 

Peculiarities of wrath

Wrath is one of the most common negative emotions in our society and it is very easy to detect due to their unique body and facial gestures.

Wrath or cholera is a inside disease it is an imbalance of behavior, a sudden violent type reaction, which feeds the vengeance and anger taken to the extreme. It is an emotion, it is a primitive feeling according to which we react before dangerous situations, as we see ourselves attacked. Wrath becomes a mechanism for self defense and armor, for fear of being hurt it is constantly on the defensive and is typical of people with great insecurity index.

According to Rafael Bisquerra "Wrath is generated when we have the feeling of having been wronged. It is a reaction of anger or rage triggered by the indignation and anger of feeling violated our rights. "

Aristotle speaks of anger as a boost accompanied with pain, a contempt that infer ourselves or someone close. St. Thomas noted that anger is a movement that encourages revenge of received injuries.

Wrath is a source of many evil things, both fathered by it as derived from it. Wrath arises because of some inferred sadness and desire of hope for revenge. the wrath that lasts a long time causes hatred. Willingness can exert a certain influence on wrath, separating it from its domain.